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An Interview With Sibyl Chavis

January 26, 2012 · 6 comments

Sibyl Chavis

“We can take care of everything we need to while we also take advantage of the possibilities that today offers us to learn, improve and live in the most amazing way where we feel really alive, connected, happy and get everything we want out of life.” – Sibyl Chavis

Hello all, I hope we are all well?

First, I’d like to apologise for the delay in between posts. It has been a busy few days with the performance of a stage play, as well as full-time work, and only now am I getting some time to really focus on blogging. I’m not complaining, but I feel I owe all of you an explanation.

Now, onto the interview. Today’s guest is someone I’m very proud and honoured to introduce. You see, there are some people in the blogging universe who I feel ‘need’ to be featured in this interview series. I believe they bring wisdom and clarity wherever they go, and I take up the chance, whenever I can, to have them answer a few questions for myself, and more importantly, for you who read this.

Sibyl Chavis, of The Possibility Of Today, is one such person. She has inspired me from my very first weeks of blogging, and she continues to shine her light brightly in the blogging universe. I hope you enjoy her answers to my questions.

Stu: How did you first come to hear of ‘blogging’?

Sibyl: It is actually a pretty funny story. My husband was really into blogging. He used to spend all of his free time working and writing on his blog. I used to wonder what on earth he was doing and how could he continually put so much time into something that was really only a hobby. I think I saw him doing it so much that he subliminally influenced me to try it out. One day I finally found the time to sit down and put something together and I have been addicted ever since.

Why did you decide to focus your blogging efforts in the personal development niche?

Actually, I wouldn’t really say that I am really focused on the personal development niche (believe it or not). I really created my blog to just discuss how we could live a little better every single day. I thought it would be interesting to look at the things we encounter during our everyday lives and discuss what works and what doesn’t. A by product of living today better than yesterday may actually support personal development, but becoming a personal development blog wasn’t something I ever really aimed to do.

Could you explain the decision to leave ‘Alternaview’ and start ‘The Possibility of Today’?

When I looked back at all of my writing, I realized that many of the things I was discussing were centered around how to really take advantage of the day that is in front of you in the absolute best way possible. I was working with Corbett Barr at Think Traffic on my blogging strategy and as we were working through things, something just felt right about “The Possibility of Today”.

If you didn’t blog, what would be the one thing you would love to spend your time on?

Oh that’s easy … reading (and relaxing). Does that count as one thing?

Sure, why not! What was the reasoning behind your decision to ‘not complain’ for 40 days?

I realized I needed to change things up a little. I had been going through a period of time when things were just not feeling as right as I knew they should. So, I thought a good first step was to remove some of the negativity and free up my mind to focus on things that were really important to me.

What’s been your biggest accomplishment to date?

Not complaining for 40 days

It’s a great accomplishment. What could you do right now to improve your life?

Focus 100% of my attention on the moment that is in front of me.

If you had 20 seconds to say whatever you wanted, and the whole world was listening, what would you say?

Each day we are given a new set of 24 hours and we get to decide how we use those 24 hours … what we do, what we think and what we learn. We can make the best use of that time, make improvements Today and know for sure that those improvements will allow us to live even better tomorrow. That is the real possibility of Today and every Today that follows.

Thank you for your wonderful answers Sibyl.

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