Why I’m Choosing The Road Less Travelled

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Walking the other path...

*NOTE: This is a guest post from Lauren Giammarco who blogs at Organizing your Life!*

There is a long road ahead with two paths to follow.

The first road is named “Practical Purposes” and the second, “Embrace Your Talents”.

Imagine, just for a moment, a world where everyone can give themselves the chance to embrace their passion, talents, true self and decided to take that path. A world where individual circumstances do not always dictate the path that is chosen. A road that is followed because individuals do not make career choices based on financials or the choice being a “practical” decision.

While most of us require practical attributes in a job, let’s put all practical reasons aside and ask the question of whether it is more rewarding to tap into where your passion lies and then see where it takes you.

At a certain point I took the road to “Practical Purposes”. I can pay the bills and add proficient in Microsoft Excel to my resume, but for me this has also resulted in a serious call for some self reflection. Being in an environment that has no direct correlation to my inner self is at times mentally exhausting and leaves no room for self gratification. I am thankful for the career opportunities I’ve had, however I need to feel as though I am making a difference in a positive way and guide others to do the same. A sense of purpose is important in all of our lives and people certainly interpret it differently.

For years my outlet has been to organize, de-clutter and move furniture around until it “feels” like it’s in the right spot. It dawned on me that I’m tapping into an outlet that comes naturally and provides enough mental clarity to feel as though I can take on the world. As if I’m in the right spot. Ignoring my true self is simply not an option, so I’m taking a detour.

Life balance and clarity is ideal in today’s world. The objective for my blog Organized for Life goes beyond my tips and ideas for cleaning out a closet or a basement. I’m attempting to de-clutter the lives of others to bring balance into their lives and create a peaceful environment. I’m sure most people would love to see where that takes them. Sometimes amid the chaos that surrounds us in life, there is always an opportunity for a moment of clarity if you’re listening to your true self.

The way I see it? To find out what you are meant to do and to secure every opportunity to do it is the key to happiness. Where there is inspiration and passion, success is inevitable – if you like that sort of thing.

Here are my top 5 for wanting to de-clutter lives:- Simplicity loves calm. Bringing simplicity into the home will create a calming environment.
- Less is more, on every level.
- Being organized creates better concentration, which leads to more sound decisions.
- Organization creates better time management, time is something we are all short of.
- De-cluttering and donating to those in need is a valuable process.
- Tomorrow is never promised, so I make every effort to embrace my talents.

Whatever your inner self is telling you, take a moment to listen. If a situation doesn’t feel right, chances are you will feel your body reacting to it. There is always time for change and growth so be good to yourself and follow the detour if you so choose.

Lauren Giammarco writes at Organized for Life!, where it’s her personal goal to help others achieve organization in their homes as well as in their lives.

 

Image courtesy of Anthonyjhall

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Josh Sarz

Thanks for the great post. I’ve stumbled on this blog and admire that someone else is actually blogging similar topics with my blog (yeah I’m new, so I didn’t know there are actually a lot until early this month).

I’m also striving to live a simpler life than what I used to be living. I’ve managed to remove some of the clutter, like old habits and vices, but not everything that I would want to remove. In time, I’ll be able to clean everything up.

I started blogging because I was amazed with the power of having a community, and maybe someday I too would be able to grow a community on my blog.
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Lauren Giammarco

Thanks Josh! I couldn’t believe how many blogs were dedicated to living simply either. I think its very refreshing that there is, and thanks for taking the time to read my post! Old habits and vices are the best to remove, no better way to clear your mind and let all the good stuff in you may have been missing. The power of having a community to hear your voice is the best part of blogging, I’ll be sure to keep reading your posts :)

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Stu

Hi Josh, it’s a pleasure to have you here!

We always welcome like-minded individuals here, and the fact that you’ve willingly made changes in your life shows that you are committed to living a happier and simpler existence.

Good to see you :-)

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Bill Dorman

Very well done; it’s amazing how inefficient we can become when we don’t have organization. It’s easy to think you know where everything is, but there is still efficiencies to be had through organization.

Less is more and I think Stu just went through that process. He was so impressed with the results it was blog worthy. Just please remind him there is no ‘s’ in organize; he must think he is a Brit or something………….:)
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Lauren Giammarco

Thanks Bill! I agree, not being organized can lead to inefficiency. I’ve realized the biggest reason for people feeling unorganized is because they either have too much on their plate or just too much stuff! Less is certainly more- being more mindful, more aware. Glad you enjoyed the post, and I actually didn’t notice the s in organizing until you mentioned it! But yes in some cases the s is replaced by z’s! Thanks for taking the time to read my post!

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Bill Dorman

Whilst I might have noticed, Stu will be the first to tell you it is he who is speaking the proper English; we crossed the pond and started making up our own stuff………:)
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Stu

It became known as ‘Atlantic English’ :-)

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Stu

Excuse me Bill, I believe if two versions of a language are called “English” and “American English”, then we know where it came from ;-)

Joking aside, it’s a pleasure to have you here as always :-)

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Ken Wert

Thanks for this post, Lauren! And thank you Stu for hosting her here!

I could definitely benefit from a major decluttering of some of the physical stuff we’ve acquired over the more than two decades my wife and I have been married. It can be hard to let go of some things that on another level I know I would never miss.

But as far as doing what I was meant to do, I believe I’m doing it. I love teaching high school. I love being married and having children. I love blogging. Thanks for the inspiration, Lauren!
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Lauren Giammarco

Thanks Ken! I love that you followed your dreams and see the result? Happiness, nothing better! you have a rewarding career and I applaud you for becoming a teacher, they have a special place in children’s lives! Thanks for taking the time to read my post!

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Stu

Hi Ken,

I’ve talked about de-cluttering before, but it’s really down to the individual’s decision to free up some of their ‘life-space’. If we feel cramped, then we’ll automatically do some clearing, but some clearing BEFORE we reach that point is wise in that we prevent the stifled feelings in the first place.

Take care my friend, and thanks for stopping by :-)

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Brad

Nice reminders Lauren.simplicity is a virtue few are willing to embrace, especially in our go fast, get ahead culture. I’ve been living simply for years and find great peace.
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Lauren Giammarco

Living simply is certainly a way of life as well as a way of thinking, and I try everyday to practice what I preach. Our culture believes that they are defined by their belongings, I loved to imagine a world where people realize its internal not the external. But until then I can work on myself! Thanks for reading my post!

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Brad

Hi Lauren,
thanks for responding. I agree and admire that you are living simply as best you can. Me too, and I get caught up in chasing external & material successes. Other times, I slow down, take a deep breath and appreciate something right in front of me like a sunset, bird singing, good food, etc. Not that this changes everything, but it helps me slow down and maybe disconnect from the anxious feeling of needing to do or get something to be ok.

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Stu

Hi Brad, I’m pleased to hear that your simple life is reaping the rewards!

We’d love to hear more of your tips? :-)

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Brad

Hi Stu,
Yes,it helps when I remember to slow down and appreciate what is already in my life. I have mostly pared my life down to the essentials. I try not to stock up on things. I often sort through and give away things. Reading Lauren’s post & blog reminds me of the power of simplicity. I’m thinking of blogging about this theme, maybe calling it simple satisfaction.

I also think this would help us reduce resource & pollution pressures on the planet. I guess my eco hat is coming out too! Thanks for asking.
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Stu

It would be very interesting to read a blog about simplicity whilst helping the environment Brad, maybe that’s a sign? :-)

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Patricia Yager Delagrange

Cleaning house and getting organized – metaphors for one’s emotional life. I liked this post.
Patti

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Stu

The physical clearing often resembles the emotional and mental clearing too Patricia, it’s a wonderful synergy in action!

Thanks for stopping by and commenting :-)

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Lauren Giammarco

Thanks Patti! I so agree that becoming organized will show internally. At times it can be overlooked as something an individual can do to lift themselves up. thanks so much for reading the post, glad you enjoyed it!

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Lori Gosselin

Hi Lauren, Hi Stu!
I’ve always felt that a clean and organized work environment makes for a clear mind! Do you think the outer environment is a reflection of what’s going on in our heads, or a cause for the disorganized chaos there?
Lori
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Stu

Hi Lori, a great question!

I think it’s part of both answers – a group decision to choose chaos always has more power than individual decisions. Our forefathers suffered from similar problems, and so the chaos has built up over time, becoming a major situation in our world.

I wonder what Lauren has to say on this? :-)

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Lauren Giammarco

Hi Lori and Stu! Such an amazing point. This is something that is, in my belief, completely dependent on the individual. Everyone’s outer environment whether positive or negative is certainly a link to their behavior and habits. Lack of motivation can be stemmed from a negative atmosphere which can in turn cause a person to allow things to be “out of control” and cluttered. What is happening inside the mind of an individual can also be determined by their own thought process separate from the outer environment too. The most important thing to tackle when someone is feeling disorganized internally and it begins to manifest itself on the outside is to get to the root of the issue. One of the steps within that process is to decide to clean house! Ridding yourself of things is linked to emotional freedom. Thanks for bringing up such an interesting topic question!

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Stu

Thanks for this wonderful guest post Lauren, it was a pleasure to publish it and give others the chance to read about your adventures and insights! :-)

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Justin | Mazzastick

I enjoyed your post Lauren. I believe the time is near when we will do for a living what we are really cut out for and not just to pay the bills.

I also get re-vamped by doing some de-cluttering and rearranging. Everyone once in a while when I have the free time I go through the garage or basement and throw out, clean and organize what is there.
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Lauren Giammarco

Hi Justin! thanks for reading, glad you enjoyed the post! I can only hope the time is near when people begin to learn their true potential is the path to personal freedom. Garages and basements take up the most junk so very well done starting there!!

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Stu

It feels wonderful doesn’t it Justin? Freeing up physical space also frees up emotional space.

Thanks for commenting :-)

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John Sherry

Very well crafted Lauren. What a world it would be if we all could answer to our own intuition and awareness of our individual nature and following that flame. Instead we’re chasing the percieved dream of big careers, bank balances, and assets and gadgets. Or, all the things that take us away from who we really are. It’s inside that the answers to contentment lies. We’re on the road to nowhere and not the one less travelled.
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Stu

Very well put John, the road to nowhere is certainly more attractive on the outside, looking like the answers are there within arm’s reach. But the truth is, the answers aren’t within arm’s reach – they’re already inside us.

Take care my friend, and thanks for stopping by :-)

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lauren giammarco

Hi John! Thanks for taking the time to read my post. Yes….the road to nowhere. This was my attempt to allow others just for a moment to understand the importance of deciding to live your best life. And turn around on that road to nowhere

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Ana @ Increase Web Traffic

Thought-provoking post indeed. I try to “keep my house clean” so to speak, that way I don’t realize that I should re-organize when it is too late.

Regarding chasing the empty achievements, I think it is much better to go after passion and reaping the fruits of a fulfilled life.

Once again, excellent post, Stu.
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Stu

Thanks Ana, although credit must go to Lauren for writing this gem – I only gave her a place to stay for a few days ;-)

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lauren giammarco

Chasing empty achievements has left me feeling unfulfilled. There’s a drive in me to do what I love as an organizer. I’m glad u enjoyed my post :)

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Stan Faryna

This is a paradoxical statement:

“Where there is inspiration and passion, success is inevitable – if you like that sort of thing.”

It is not simply a logical paradox; it is also an emotional paradox. This is a common problem with the positivity movement. It resolves to paradoxes; it doesn’t resolve paradoxes, problems, or the ironic. Because conflict and confrontation are worse than evil, paradox, or tragedy – all of which can be easily ignored. Or so the positivity movement would like to suggest.

I’m not picking on Lauren. I dont even want to make an example of her. Actually, I wanted to walk down the road less travelled that she wanted to paint. Because I think the mainstream problem of being stuck in an ordinary job with the mute on was, in fact, poorly resolved by consumption, entertainment, and more consumption. Worse than that, devotion to consumption and entertainment is not sustainable for many reasons.

Small is beautiful when small is intensely poignant. Like a Buckeye packed with peanut-butter wonerfulness within a rich, soft shell of chocolate.

Josh Sarz’s comment, I noticed, speaks to the same gentle garden path that I suspect of the road less travelled.

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Stu

Hi Stan, thanks for stopping by and commenting on Lauren’s guest post!

I must admit, I enjoy paradoxes. I don’t feel the need to resolve paradoxes in life, and I spend a bit of my thinking time attempting to resolve a paradox, only to give up and admit that it should remain as it is – a paradox.

Nothing can be easily ignored in this world, I believe. But we can only focus on any one thing at any given time. Thankfully, we have some choice in what we focus on :-)

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lauren giammarco

Thanks for your feedback on my post. I actually enjoyed your take on it…I hadn’t considered the idea that I was sounding like I was contradicting myself. I do see your point and agree with Stu. A paradox can sometimes be unexplained. The positivity movement to me doesn’t ignore tragedy or confrontation. It allows us to simply rise above it. If that’s living your Passion or eating a chocolate its your call. That’s the beauty of mental freedom.

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Lloyd Christie

Hey Stu,Lauren, great post – Simplicity is the trinity – King, Queen and freedom. a clutter free environment is a clutter free mind. I Think it is something that needs to be constantly aimed for because there is always stuff coming in. keeping it simple is the best way to guard freedom of mind, which leads to other success.

Blessings
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Stu

It’s all about guarding the freedom of the mind isn’t it Lloyd? If we let others in, they run the risk of influencing us, and then we suffer.

Thanks for commenting!

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lauren giammarco

Thanks Lloyd….yes always something to be aimed for. I believe it can be overlooked in this world where we sometimes are constantly going…it is always refreshing to have a clutter free mind :)

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Hector Avellaneda

Great post Lauren!

You know, I’ve discovered that the reasons why most people take the paths they do and choose the careers they do in life, has less to do with what they actually want to do in life and more to do with acceptance.

What do I mean?

Well, if you think about it, as a children what did we seek for the most?

we seek our parents love, we seek their approval and we desire a strong sense of belonging to the family clan.

Most parents push their kinds to become engineers, doctors, lawyers, astronauts, etc. and since we want to feel loved, accepted and belong to the family, we give up our very own dreams and aspirations to conform to the family will.

When have you ever hear a parent encourage their child to become an artist or a musician or an actor?

Perhaps you may know of some cases where this is true but the fact of the matter is that these cases are so few and far in between that they are almost insignificant.

I think that the stand you are taking to follow your own heart is extremely admirable and sincere and more people should follow your example.
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Stu

Hey Hector, thanks for taking the time to leave such a wonderful comment!

You’re right – we seek love no matter what age we are, but as children we’re more innocent in our ways. We, sometimes naively, believe that our parents and peers will love us no matter what and always show this love to us. Unfortunately, by trying to control their children and stifling their freedom, parents and peers run the risk of cutting off the sense of love to their children. And if children feel they aren’t getting love, they don’t feel right.

Take care :-)

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Hector Avellaneda

Yes sir! Glad you get it Stu! I know you won’t stifle your kids. :)
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Lauren Giammarco

This is so true Hector! Something to be said for. My step daughter takes guitar lessons, something we encouraged her to do because she loved music. I know of students whose parents end up taking them out of the classes and push them to do sports instead regardless of their non-existent interest in it. Its discouraging to see. your natural interests are at the soul of an individual, something that can’t be taken away from you. Thanks for the read!

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Jack@TheJackB

I am working quite hard to simplify my life because sometimes less is more.
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Stu

Sometimes it is Jack, but don’t feel that simplifying HAS to be done. If it isn’t fun, then why else are you doing it? :-)

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J.D. Meier

> find out what you are meant to do and to secure every opportunity to do it is the key to happiness.
That’s a pattern that seems to work time and again to produce great results.

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Stu

Agreed – if you know what your purpose is in life, then you’re already ahead of 90% of the world’s population :-)

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Lauren Giammarco

I figured in my own life whats the worse that could happen if I dont try? :) At least there was the effort. Thanks for the post!

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Adeline

Nice post, Lauren. Doing something you’re really passionate about is definitely more fulfilling than just doing something because everyone else is doing it. I’ve seen a lot of people discontented despite having what others would consider as a successful life. Most of the time, their discontentment lies in the fact that they never had the chance to do what they are so passionate about whether it’s because of expectations or traditions. Taking the road less traveled can be a bit scary because you don’t know where it will lead you. But doing that can spell the difference between just living a life and leaving a legacy.
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Stu

Thanks for commenting Adeline,

As long as you feel that the road in front of you is the right road for you, then you should walk it. It doesn’t matter how many footprints you come across as you walk a road – sooner or later, you’ll come across a section of the path where there are no footprints. This is YOUR section.

Take care!

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